Talking About Hearing Loss
Quite often, those facing hearing loss can feel shame or embarrassment when talking about their hearing or the accommodations they need. However, statistics show that an overwhelming number of people are already facing hearing loss or will face some degree of hearing loss at one point in their lives. Rather than hiding your hearing loss, disclosing it will ultimately be more beneficial to you and those around you. Here’s how to discuss your hearing loss with others.
Here are a few ways to start that conversation:
Approach the person in a private setting. A group setting will most likely lead to embarrassment, which could adversely affect the conversation.
Start by asking if they’ve noticed signs of hearing loss. Feel free to review our hearing questionnaire with them. They may be relieved to have someone to talk to, but if they deny an issue, (gently) provide examples of situations you’ve noticed that caused you concern.
Explain that hearing loss can lead to social isolation, depression, balance disorders, and even dementia. Also, explain that hearing loss is often irreversible, and the longer you wait, the more damage can set in.
Do your research beforehand, and present one or two options for audiologists in their area. Explain that the first step is just a hearing test.
Help them understand what to expect during the first visit with the audiologist.
End on a positive and encouraging note! Discuss how improved hearing will impact their life.
Here are a few ways to disclose you have hearing loss:
Basic disclosure: describes those who disclose that they experience hearing loss and may also include more details about their condition. Ex: I’m partially deaf due to an ear infection I experienced years ago.
Nondisclosure: describes those who do not disclose their hearing loss but use other more common phrases instead. Ex: I can’t hear you. Can you please speak up?
Multipurpose disclosure: describes those who disclose their hearing loss and offer a strategy for accommodation as well. Ex: I have hearing loss in my right ear. Please walk on my left side.
Multipurpose disclosure is the most effective because you can help others understand you further and immediately remove back-and-forth questions about how to be accommodating, how your hearing loss works, etc.
If you or a loved one is suffering from symptoms of hearing loss, we can help! Schedule an appointment with us.
